I was at this show and I think you're misreading it a bit too. It wasn't really rude I don't think. Jeff was joking about people sneaking in alcohol (no alcohol sold in venue) and she tossed it up there. It was a bag flask. He held it up, showing it to the crowed, and joked about it before tossing it back to her. It got a big laugh. Heres how I scored the setlist: Handshake Drugs Shot In The Arm Impossible Germany I Am Trying To Break Your Heart Muzzle of Bees Kamera Company In My Back At Least That's What You Said Jesus, Etc "The More I Think About It"? ( I didn't know this song) Theol