FYI

Then you did everything right. Sorry to have offended you, but wanted you to be armed with information which may help in the future:-) And to the kid getting engaged. Hire a sky writer to fly over the venue and have it say: "Marry Me _________" (insert appropriate name here) Or call TMM. Good luck!

That's why. Unless you kept that bit of info to yourself. If not, next time keep it to yourself. Being an obsessive poster on a band's message board comes off as unprofessional. No one is telling you not to, go ahead if it makes you happy, just don't expect it to necessarily endear you to the band and their camp. Likely the opposite. Just an FYI.