Needing a little relationship advice

[D-Dogg]

I still don't give a shit about your opinion then.

 

 

All I got to say then is you did a fine job asking for advice without providing significant information about the situation.

 

Then you called people idiots that responded harshly to your NOT well thought out post.

 

Again this is your first post:

 

 

Basically, my girlfriend of 2 years, who I am planning to spend the rest of my life with, just hates my family. She doesn't want to see them and she doesn't want to get to know them. Furthermore, she doesn't seem to care that it hurts me and has charged me with the task of just accepting that she isn't going to be a part of my family.

 

How the fuck do I handle this one? Do I try to just accept this? Do I tell her that this is unacceptable? Do I tell her that I'm fine with it but that her family can fuck off too?

 

Anyone else gone through this? Surely there must be some VCers that can't stand their in-laws!

 

Again, way to go for calling people on here idiots for telling you to leave her. This relationship, as YOU described it, seems to be quite peaceful and full of love.

[The High Heat]

I'm really not looking for anymore advice. The lady and I have really worked things out.

You may want to go ahead and close the thread or at least ignore it. Good luck to you.

[LouieB]

I have seen some crazy shit round here over the years including stuff I initiated myself, but coming in and asking for personal advice (as opposed to venturing a half assed opinion about politics, music or something else), without really giving accurate information is just begging for trouble.

 

Don't ask for advice without having an open mind, giving a relatively complete story and taking everyone's opinion as their opinion. Someone needs to close this because you fucked up. End it now!!

 

LouieB

[Guest Ordinary Beehive]

You may want to go ahead and close the thread or at least ignore it. Good luck to you.

 

I am going to close the thread.

 

I got some really useful advice/insight from a bunch of people, and I'm thankful they took the time to write me a genuine comment. I was pretty down the day I started this thread, and based on the advice I received in here, I was able to have some great conversation with my lady and things are looking great down the line.

 

I also got some useless shit from others, who I just can't understand why they would think it's ok to jump in and say "dump her". That isn't useful to me at all. I may not have been very thorough or articulate or whatever in my initial post, but I was looking for some insight into how I can work to better my relationship with the woman I love. Dumping her is not an option.

 

Anyway, I don't take it personally. See ya in the other threads.