Again I have to repeat the question...why don't I enjoy live music the way I want to and you can enjoy it the way you want to? My personal view of the live music thing (esp with Wilco) is that I am there to hear the music. The show isn't about me and wether or not I am "dancing",it is not about me showing what a huge fan I am by singing along with every word of every song, it is not about me proving to you I am having a good time by standing up so that you feel more comfortable doing the same, it is about the band playing the music. I prefer to sit near the soundboard instead of standing rig