stooka Posted February 8, 2010 Share Posted February 8, 2010 Shit, Man!!! After 26 years, I'm getting a divorce! I would appreciate some VIBES, if anyone wants to share. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
remphish1 Posted February 8, 2010 Share Posted February 8, 2010 Shit, Man!!! After 26 years, I'm getting a divorce! I would appreciate some VIBES, if anyone wants to share.Sorry to hear about it...vibes man... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Duck-Billed Catechist Posted February 8, 2010 Share Posted February 8, 2010 Wow. Vibes. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
embiggen Posted February 8, 2010 Share Posted February 8, 2010 vibes Stooka! sorry to hear this. that's a long time to be married... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Atticus Posted February 8, 2010 Share Posted February 8, 2010 vibes your way Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bjorn_skurj Posted February 8, 2010 Share Posted February 8, 2010 Oh snap! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Edie Posted February 8, 2010 Share Posted February 8, 2010 Shit, Man!!! After 26 years, I'm getting a divorce! I would appreciate some VIBES, if anyone wants to share. No way!! I'm so sorry to hear it -- you guys make such a nice couple Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sir Stewart Posted February 8, 2010 Share Posted February 8, 2010 Shitty to hear it. Vibes man. Hope everything works out for the best. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
LouieB Posted February 8, 2010 Share Posted February 8, 2010 Holy crap, that is the same length of time I have been married. Really sorry to hear this, since I have had really great interactions with you here on and off VC, even though we have not met in real life.. Life is weird, that is all I can say. Hang in there. LouieB Quote Link to post Share on other sites
blindgonzo Posted February 8, 2010 Share Posted February 8, 2010 Damn, Jay! So sorry to hear this. I am sending you lots of supporting vibes Quote Link to post Share on other sites
uncool2pillow Posted February 9, 2010 Share Posted February 9, 2010 Ugh. VIBES! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
W(TF) Posted February 9, 2010 Share Posted February 9, 2010 It's happening everywhere. I'm going through my second, so is my mom...and I know 3 or 4 other people splitting just since the holidays. Try to stay positive and hope for a good outcome for everyone. Vibes Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Heartbreak Posted February 9, 2010 Share Posted February 9, 2010 Major vibes coming your way. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
froggie Posted February 9, 2010 Share Posted February 9, 2010 vibes from the land downunder Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Jules Posted February 9, 2010 Share Posted February 9, 2010 It's happening everywhere. Is it contagious? Vibes stooka. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gobias Industries Posted February 9, 2010 Share Posted February 9, 2010 Vibes, man. No one should go through it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lammycat Posted February 9, 2010 Share Posted February 9, 2010 Vibes, man. No one should go through it. Unless it's what's for the best of both parties, of course. Or even one of them. Yeah, vibes though. It's not that fun. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jimtweedy1977 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Unless it's what's for the best of both parties, of course. Or even one of them. Yeah, vibes though. It's not that fun.vibes coming your way. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
stooka Posted February 10, 2010 Author Share Posted February 10, 2010 Thanks everyone! At least so far, nobody's getting nasty! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wendy Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Jay, hang in there. This has to be tough not only for you, but for all your family and friends. Vibes to all. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Basil II Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Vibes to you stooka....... sometimes these things wierd out in such strange ways.... -robert Quote Link to post Share on other sites
pillowy star Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 Are there kids involved? If so, brace yourself for being blamed as a bad parent for destroying their childhood for the rest of your life. No matter what they do wrong in their life without you having any influence on it, it will always be your fault because you choose to destroy the family. Oh yeah, and it doesn't matter at all if you might have had your good reasons like e.g. survival. That doesn't count. Major vibes are on their way to you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jimmyjimmy Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 Vibes and all the best wishes for the future. Major change is certainly difficult but trust me, good things can come from it.Hang in there. It gets better. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
stooka Posted February 11, 2010 Author Share Posted February 11, 2010 Are there kids involved? If so, brace yourself for being blamed as a bad parent for destroying their childhood for the rest of your life. No matter what they do wrong in their life without you having any influence on it, it will always be your fault because you choose to destroy the family. Oh yeah, and it doesn't matter at all if you might have had your good reasons like e.g. survival. That doesn't count. Major vibes are on their way to you. One daughter, age 23. She's married and lives in Ohio. I didn't make the final decision, but agree that it's what's best. I appreciate everyone's support! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lammycat Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 Are there kids involved? If so, brace yourself for being blamed as a bad parent for destroying their childhood for the rest of your life. No matter what they do wrong in their life without you having any influence on it, it will always be your fault because you choose to destroy the family. Oh yeah, and it doesn't matter at all if you might have had your good reasons like e.g. survival. That doesn't count. I don't think this is exclusive to divorced parents. A lot of "kids" pull this card regardless. Divorce is as common as marriage these days. Kids can adapt to the situation fine. The key is to show respect for the ex and the kids should be ok. My three boys (now aged almost-3, 7, and 9) have adjusted quite well since my divorce 2 years ago. Their mother and I are friendly and respetful to each other and that goes a long way in their eyes, we believe. It was a little difficult in the beginning but they see that it's better this way and mom and dad are actually friends again. They've had counselling, as well (the older boys, at least). With older kids (i.e. 23 yrs old) there should be no issues besides maybe some initial resentments. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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